Facebook: to poke or to puke?

The Weekly Writing Challenge is an interesting one indeed!

There is a lot to be said about Facebook. With the 10 year anniversary coming up in a little more than 7 months, it has been in the news for more bad reasons that good ones of late. First there was the noting on the Stock Exchange with promises of huge profits for investors, which didn’t quite pan out that way. Next we had endless security warnings and messages of accounts being hacked or user’s details being leaked. Furthermore, at least once a week you can find an article of how Facebook have ruined another relationship or assisted in someone being conned out of their hard earned savings.

I couldn’t really be bothered with my account being hacked. No one has anything to gain by stealing my identity and, since I’m a bit of a control freak, I tend to change my password on a weekly basis, at the very least, making it just a little difficult for anyone who would try. I never post anything that won’t pass as suitable for Luke, my (very strict) gran or my pastor. If their eyes can’t see it, then it’s not on there, very simple rule!

In terms of Facebook ruining relationships, I am of the opinion that it can only ruin your relationship if you allow it to happen. It goes down to a very simple little thing called moral values. I value myself and I value my relationship with Jacques. Nothing will compromise that, EVER. I have in the past, and will continue to do so in future, removed people from my friends list who post links or ideas that are not in line with what I believe and what I stand for.

I just don’t see how it is possible to have someone as a friend when their opinions or interest are in obvious contradiction to your own. I guess some people suffer from FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) and thus feel compelled to be “friends” with everyone they meet or who just looks remotely interesting. I’m so glad I don’t! Every person on my friends list is someone that I know personally. Don’t even bother sending me a friend request if I don’t know you or just met you. You ain’t gonna get anywhere fella!

As far as Facebook activity goes, my feed is forever updating, thus it is always open at work. I don’t have a lot of Facebook friends – it’s only family, colleagues (old and current) and friends from school. My father and his wife, my brother and sister-in-law, my mother and grandmother, my late sister’s husband and child – they are all in different towns scattered across South Africa. If we did not have Facebook, let’s face it, it would be immensely difficult to keep up to date with the happenings in their lives, photos and such. I love Facebook and I am very grateful Mark Zuckerberg for “stealing” the idea.

Why then is my Facebook feed so very, very long? 90% of my Facebook activity relates to pages that I am subscribed to: motivation, inspiration, spiritual, personal growth, health, news, gospel, sport and technology.

I can definitely see that for certain people and in certain relationships Facebook could be a problem, but it can only be one as far as you allow it to be. You are the one who needs to answer to your conscious; you are the one who needs to close your eyes at night and go to sleep peacefully. Play it by the book and you have nothing to worry about.

Mark Twain said it best:

Freedom of Facebook

Facebook has recently come under attack for failing to enforce its own guidelines on hate speech and violent imagery. Is it a website’s job to moderate the content its users post, or should users have complete freedom? Is there a happy medium? If so, how would you structure it?


Today’s prompt is an interesting one, which will evoke a lot of different opinions.  This certainly is a prompt where I cannot wait to see the responses!

Freedom of speech – that little piece of legislation that gives normal citizens the freedom to say what they want, when they want.  There are two problems with this.

First off, it is an unfortunate fact that some people do not know where to draw the line, and live by this rule:

impress vs bs

A very good example of this was seen last week on the Facebook page created in honor of the late Lee Rigby.  Some of the responses were heartfelt and sincere, but some of them however were just shocking.  At some point I wanted to ask these Neanderthals whether they realized that the page was not created to entice revenge, but to pay respect to a fallen hero.

Secondly, we live in a society where gossip rules.  Some people seem to live for the next bit of saucy detail, regardless of whether it is true or not.  People would much rather believe something bad about someone than to go to the effort to find out the truth.  It’s a fact.  I’m sure it is not necessary, but if you feel the urge to check whether this statement is justified, simply Google Celebrity Gossip.  I’m sure you’ll get the point.

These issues then poses the problem whether internet speech should be censored.

We all have heard of people whose relationships turned to dust or had their reputation shattered because of what was said by an ignorant fool.  Facebook has become a powerful tool for marketing and activism.  When you come across a new product or service (or even, in some cases, when you meet someone) what is the first thing you do?  We turn to Bing or Google, look at the majority of reports and form an initial opinion based on what we find.  This is where I have a bit of a moral dilemma.

Scenario 1 – Freedom of speech is practiced in every sense of the word:

Freedom is allowed across all platforms and any negative claims made, will have to be backed up with evidence to the contrary.  This would mean employing someone full time to keep abreast of what is being said about your company.  For a company like Monsanto for instance, this has proven a difficult task (especially in the past week) as they have had to deal with an influx of rants from visitors 🙂   I am pretty sure they would rather have had the option to just delete those comments before they can be seen.

However, what happens when a company is maliciously attacked with claims which holds no ground?  They will then be stuck with a huge PR dilemma.

Scenario 2 – Freedom of speech is moderated:

Now, this is pretty much the basis that WordPress works on, and for me, it is a system that works really well!  Any comments by new visitors are placed on “Pending” until such time as it can be “Approved” by the owner of the site.  Once a visitor have been approved, all future communication will appear automatically.   This can however also be detrimental in the sense that the owner then have the choice as to what content he / she wants displayed.  It is a very simple choice to delete a comment which goes against your liking.  I guess it’s a matter of the moral compass of the person in charge.  If you can’t take the heat (criticism) stay out of the kitchen!

I quite like the way things are being done on WordPress and will stick with that for now.

Just remember: